Talkie Pants Date #2

Date #2 with talkie pants was pretty interesting. I told him the night before about needing a new mattress and we scheduled a COSTCO outing. Little did I know that the night before drunkenness, I spilled all the beans about my weight issues and eating chips & queso like there’s no tomorrow. I pretty much told him all those beautiful embarrassing things you save for at least a month into the relationship before letting this guy know all your body conscious issues.

I’m beginning to realize there’s no down time with this guy. It seems like we’re in constant conversation, which isn’t bad, but at the same time it’s a bit exhausting. COSTCO was fun but we needed food and decided to venture to a convenient breakfast place located within the same parking lot. As we’re walking in the door, the hostesses ask if we have our invitation for their “soft opening.” I immediately begin to turn tail, knowing we don’t have an invitation. He however decides to pull out his “credentials” and talk our way into the soft opening. This slightly annoyed me simply because I don’t like to weasel my way into anything and it wouldn’t have been a big deal to go across the street to someplace else. Oh well, I guess my hangover from the night before limited my capability to fight my urge for food, and was excited to get a 3 course meal handed in front of me.

Conversation was good; we discussed everything from strip clubs and Vegas to weddings and babies. I guess sometimes those all go hand and hand. At one point I began to yawn, knowing that my much needed sleep was catching up to me. He asked if he was a bore and I responded with, “you’re not boring at all, that’s one thing I really like about you.” I giggled in my head when I found the opportunity to say this because of the first date thoughts, haha.

2nd date with talkie pants ended well with a nice hug and we’re scheduled for a 3rd dinner date. I’m picking him up tonight and we shall see. I think this will be the final determination as to how I’m feeling about him.

I like him, but not sure if it’s really there. There are a few things that still bother me and make me think he’s still a bit of a narcissist. Plus, I’m not sure if the physical attraction is there, he’s just not some guy that I want to rip his clothes off. In fact, I’m hoping they stay on. Hum, yeah maybe I’m really not into this guy. On the other hand, I like his personality and his outgoingness. Plus he keeps asking me out and I enjoy spending time with him so it’s hard to say no.