80s Rock Star

I really wish I blogged about this guy before I met stargazer, because now I’m unjustly comparing a good date to another good date. I love these good dates; both guys are so much better than piano man! 80s rock star is a genuine guy, real down to earth, and casual. He’s very much a match for who I am in general and we had a fabulous time together. But I didn’t get flowers…

Flowers are soo smart, any single guys out there, bring your date flowers. You may not realize this, girls take them home and put them in a vase, and every time they look at them or smell them, they immediately think of you. It’s genius!

Okay back to my Wednesday night date with rock star. He’s in a 80s cover band, haha. He’s actually a really nice guy, a little older, but really sweet. I talked a lot about babies though, simply because a lot of new babies are coming into my life with my friends and family. He then asked a question that hit me hard. Are all of your friends married and have kids? Wow, besides match dating, I have not gone out with any other singles. In fact, I could only name one friend that doesn’t live in the same town as me that is single. No wonder I’m in desperate need of a dating life.
I really wanted to invite rock star back to my place for some Christmas cookies decorating enjoyment, but didn’t. Not sure what held me back but first dates just seem like they should end there and not go too late. But honestly I should start following my heart and feelings and stop being so rules based.

Here are my rules:
1) no kissing on the first date
2) no extreme drinking
3) no discussion about other boys or ex
4) meet them out, do not let them know where you live
5) do not talk about sex or sexual things

I guess that’s pretty much it, and I guess that’s why I’ve been such a prude, but honestly I want a boyfriend not a one night stand. Maybe I should just try to kills those rules and see what happens, hehe. Then wake up the next day with a hang over and a strange man in my bedroom. Bad idea, we should stick to the rules.

Rock star is out of town this weekend and stargazer is in town. I’m thinking about asking stargazer to my friend’s holiday party… I would love to see what everyone thinks of him and I would love to see him again. And this time have a real good night kiss.